Friday, September 20, 2024

"Melissa" - a transgender tale of trials and triumphs

"Melissa," by Alex Gino

Recommended Age: Grades 4-6 




Melissa is about a fourth grade student named George, who enjoys video games, riding her bike, good books, and joking around with her best friend, a girl named Kelly.

The close third-person narrator describes George with the pronoun set she/her/hers, but the rest of the characters use the pronouns he/him/his. Every gendered pronoun, every gender-segregated school line-up, every reference to how well-behaved a ‘boy’ she is, causes her emotional pain. The pain from this mismatch between how others see her and how she sees herself builds to a boiling point when George auditions for the lead girl’s part in the school play.

How will her friends, family, classmates, and authority figures react to this transgression in the rules of the school play?

One of the things that I enjoyed about this book was how theater, which has traditionally been a welcoming space for gender nonconforming and queer students, played a central role in the coming-out narrative for the transgender main character.  This has echoes in my own experience as a nonbinary person, and I think this detail might act as a guidepost or a relatable moment for young readers.

Gino writes an engrossing narrative rich in both scene-setting observations, and in the small, emotionally fraught social details that can either destroy or rescue an entire week for a child at this age.

The reactions that people in George’s life have to her changing gender identity could have been lifted out of the diary entries of myself and my transgender friends. It’s clear that the author is writing about the transgender experience as someone who has lived it themselves.

This work was highly relatable to me, even though I came to my nonbinary experience from the ‘opposite’ side, and I recommend it fully to any young readers of any pronoun set, who are curious about their own gender nonconformity or identity. This narrative has the potential to help children who are anything like George feel less alone in their struggle. It might even help them plan and hope for a better future.

Other readers without this personal connection are still likely to enjoy for it for its well-told, poignant story about a child coming to terms with themselves, in a world that both passively and actively fights against her existence. These difficulties come across as even more challenging to all readers, in today’s political and cultural climate, which has made existing as a transgender youth literally illegal in many states, and an unpleasant public debate topic for students who just want to live as themselves in basically the entire English-speaking world.

Read more about the book at Alex Gino’s personal website.

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